withs weekend I finally met his parents, we're watching some dumb movie called Snowpiercer on Netflix
I've been avoiding his calls, and I'm considering just switching parishes. I don't know how to deal with this. Can one of you give me some advice?
Can someone help me deal with this?
James Anderson
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Jaxson Peterson
End it if it makes you uncomfortable or would scandalize your parish.
John Baker
AVOID THE APPEARANCE OF EVIL.
If it's God's Will for you to be married, He will provide.
Caleb Brown
“I can’t deal with this right now”
This is why women are so winnie the pooh inferior. Yes you can deal with it “right now” you should’ve stayed and talked to him about it but instead you have to have the melodrama because women all think they star in a tv show.
Henry White
Second cousin marriage is objectively and historically not weird (the rate of genetic defects is virtually no higher than average). But it's considered taboo in our society, so if you can't deal with it then you owe it to yourself and him to tell him as such. Simply running away from the issue is the absolute worst thing you can do.
Colton Wood
First of all your sexism is utterly unwarrented. Secondly you have literally no idea what was going through my head when I learned that we are related. Every kiss, every "I love you", hell, every touch felt incestious. Should I have stayed and talked about it? Yeah. But I literally felt like a disgusting whore, so no, I couldn't handle it at that moment.
I guess that is true, but doesn't the church refuse to marry people who are too closely related? Consanguinity I think the term is called. And yeah I was thinking that any children we had would be deformed, inbred monsters.
But you guys are right, I can't hide from my problems. I'll give him a call and… See what he wants to do. Just last week I had already decided to say "yes" if and when he proposed. I do love him.
Jaxson Reed
TALK TO A PRIEST WOMAN. If he isn't okay with it, especially since he knows you both, then I say follow his guidance. But also yeah, pick up that phone and talk to the poor man. Take him with you to the priest.
Lincoln Price
It should go without saying that if he IS okay with it, then still follow his guidance. polite sage
Wyatt Phillips
nice larp
Hunter Kelly
Why