Finding a good Christian girl

So I am 22 and I have noticed that there are many girls my age that have abandoned basic Christian values and have fully embraced "Hook up Culture" /degeneracy. I was wondering where I could find a proper wife material girlfriend and how to look for signs of Mrs right.

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Eh, either church or just hope that someone will appear. I still hope that some day I shall find pure, traditional, smart virgin gf myself, though chances are not pretty high

Look through the catalog, we have lots of similar threads or threads about relationship questions in general.

First of all, I would like you to change your view on the world. It is not "many girls (your) age" that abandoned Christianity, it is many guys our age as well.

Also, dont expect people to be without any fault.

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Church is a good place, but also dating sites that aren't hook up sites. One thing you'll find though no matter where you look is that a large amount of them aren't actually virgins.

As you date in your 20s you have to be aware that a lot of women might have a bit of a history. But there are women with a history who are sincerely repentant, I met an amazing girl who had relations with one guy (she was engaged at the time) and she's been killing herself over it every day. I don't blame her because I may be a virgin but like most people who post on a chan I have a history with porn and lust, and I don't know how I would have acted in that situation. Aside from that she's absolutely amazing, she's extremely traditional, she believes men should lead and women should let them, she loves kids and wants a bunch of them, she cooks and does household chores, she's hard working, and having sinned in the past and realizing it she's become extremely devout and wants to serve God.

My point is you aren't super likely to find a virgin qt3.14 in your mid 20s, they're out there but most traditional women get married early so they're rare, and I'm not saying that you should find someone who had 30 men and is ready to settle, but unfortunately a large amount of women have had at least one partner in the past. I know people here are going to go crazy over this but there's nothing wrong with a sincerely penitent woman who made a mistake in the past. Christ has forgiven you for a debt much much greater than anything someone might owe you (and in all likelihood you have your own similar sins) and anyone who accepts Him is a new creation.

And as said, many guys either have made the mistake of pre-marital relations or have had issues with pornography, so it's not just women who have become corrupted, and don't expect someone to be without faults. Assuming you do find a virgin qt, she's not going to be some ideal meme woman like Christ-Chan, she'll be a real woman with faults.

I'm basically telling you this so you don't get your hopes up for a virgin or a perfect woman and then pass on someone who has sincerely changed and would be an amazing wife, and so you don't become discouraged when you find out a woman isn't a virgin.

Anyway, signs you want to look for a good wife are a woman who prays and knows and reads scripture (and if you're Orthodox/Catholic the saints too) and wants to read and pray with you, one who is modest, who is feminine (actually wanting kids and wanting to do womanly things), and who is hardworking, who doesn't drink, or go out to bars, who isn't obsessed with social media, who you can fully trust, and really if you want the description of an ideal woman look to Proverbs 31.

Red flags to look out for are the women who just go to church Sundays, listens to pop-Christian music, who talk about how much they love Jesus but really can't quote the bible and doesn't care about God except when she's in trouble or outside of raising her hands and swaying to music on Sunday morning. Basically the women for whom God is nothing but an inspirational figure, a hollow spiritual high, and a means of virtue signaling and self-righteousness. Another red flag is her social/political views, she supports of abortion, Trannies, or gay marriage (should be a dealbreaker for you anyway), she thinks women should be able to be leaders or that men and women are essentially the same. Another red flag is how fast she wants to move or how far she wants to go before marriage, if she's asking to or pushing to make-out and be physical that's not a good sign. Additionally, if she avoids the topic of a sexual history all together that's a red flag. If she obviously isn't a good woman then don't settle for her, she won't change no matter how hard you try.

And one last thing, you have to be the kind of man a good woman wants. You have to be a hard worker because she wants a man to provide for and lead a family one day, you have to be moral and Godly yourself because the man is supposed to be spiritual leader of the house, you have to be a leader in general.

TL;DR -
You aren't going to find Christ-Chan, a large amount of women (and men too) have sinned but are genuinely penitent, a good woman knows the bible and prays and is hardworking, feminine, and modest, and a bad woman is "spiritual", loves the modern world (social media, leftism), and if you want a good woman you have to be a good man.

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Please don't listen to and marry a non-virgin woman. You'll be grateful later for not marrying someone who's been a whore. A man watching porn and masturbating or having premarital sex is NOT equivalent to a woman having premarital sex, even if she's only had it with one man before you.

Don't be pathetic. Have some standards.

Just google how porn affects the brain, and consider that you've committed adultery if you've looked at a woman lustfully.

It is perfectly clear, and is the wisdom of the ages, that premarital sex defiles a woman, and women who are no longer virgins have been for most of history been discarded as not being fit to be a wife (unless theyre widows). A man havìng premarital relations does not affect marital stability. Yes, even looking at a woman lustfully is committing adultery in your heart and one who does that deserves to burn in Hell. But it does not affect marriage.

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Also, don't make the mistake of marrying someone who hates your hobbies or interests. Barring a divorce over infidelity unless you're Catholic, you'll be living with this woman for the rest of your life and the last thing you want is constant tension or being drained of all personality and quirks until you're her hollow shell.
Also, make sure she doesn't get angry whenever you consume media with non-ugly women or she's just locked you into a lifetime of watching modern Hollywood jewesses and manjaws.

Anything you do regularly affects the brain in some way, and thanks to neuroplasticity (and porn being nonaddictive) these changes are undone fairly easily and quickly on their own. What complicates things is most nofappers either have no self control or emotional/psychological problems holding them back, and both issues must be dealt first if you want to make any real progress.
Nofap is still a good idea, mind you, the problem is that most people go about it the wrong way and it ends up unnecessarily drawn out and angsty.

Tbh all I did was be generally social with some good friends and found my Catholic gf through them. Been together for about a half year now, is working out pretty well.

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