Zig Forums RELATIONSHIP GENERAL #6: YELLOW FEVER TIGS PLS GO

Would it be wrong of me to seek out other girls while I begin the process of breaking up with my current gf? I know for a fact I won't marry her, I just haven't been able to bring it, and the reasons why, with her yet. I do not have any other girls in mind, this is just a question.

That's a pretty terrible idea, you should recover at least a little as a single person. But in the spirit of these threads sure, go out to neg some bitches and tap them boobs in the name of Jesus

That's not at all what I was implying I wanted to do, but I will respect the first portion of your reply.

Which country?

I'm not saying you implied that at all, but stick around and see what will be said. Sexual promiscuity will be encouraged or at least accepted, by men that is. Inter-racial marriage will be promoted out of pure hatred for white christian women. Respecting women for their godly attributes will be equated with worshiping female genitalia. If the mods knew what they were doing they would remove these threads or at least come down on the antichristian spirit in them

Take up the culture of your motherland, and perhaps a native of that land will be willing to breed with you.

Focus on being a Christian man who loves God and himself. Will pray.

Read the OPs and your bible until it finally clicks. You can do it, and if you're smart you'll do it much sooner in life than I did.

Even if you're an apex chad, you open yourself up to having it done to you by an apex stacey. Be honest with yourself, if only for God.

Go be happy somewhere else.

Touched her boobs recently OP? Its all legit as long as you avoid that ear

Also can we add a relevant link to the original post next time?
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winnie the pooh you. I come here asking a legitimate question and all you do is winnie the pooh around with OP. I've been asking all over online for years trying to get help trying to turn my life around and I'm at my wits ends and then winnie the poohs like you have to ruin my confidence further and stress me out. I hardly can care about God any more since I just feel lonely and awkward. I can't go anywhere and be happy. I can't enjoy myself around people. I can't enjoy myself alone. My future as it is looks like it's just going to be infront of a computer for the rest of my life with no winnie the pooh joy. Holy shit. I've lost hope for happiness and actually finding a relationship. I've lost hope for finding someone I could just talk to about what I'm thinking. Do you think my first option was turning to the chans. All I get anywhere is the standard "get fit, lol", "take a walk", "God loves you". I hardly expected to get anything different here, and it looks like I won't. But of course, winnie the poohs like you don't actually care about helping anyone, you just want to come here and winnie the pooh around.

midwestern america in a predominately white area, it's pretty quiet and not much happens

Who do you think is responsible for your happiness?
How many times have you been told to go to the gym, and how many times have you actually done it?
How often do you read your bible and go to church?
What answer are you expecting to get on an anonymous image board?

I think the problem that you're having, based on your writings, is that you think your suffering is somehow worse than others. I'm a pretty alpha guy and also deal with the same problems you do. The only friend I ever had blew his brains out. But just because I do doesn't mean that I should neglect myself, if only for God's sake. No one else can do that for you. You're just suffering a pity party and expect us to un-winnie you. If you don't even care enough about your own self to seek improvement, why should it be anyone else's problem? Don't think you're the only who's ever felt weird and went to college. For someone who does so much navel gazing how can you find fault in yourself and think that you're incapable of self improvement. Are you really that stupid to think you're already perfect? Grow up, kid.

Going to my first ever date tomorrow. Am I expected to pay on a coffee date? Anything else (etiquette things) I should know? prayers would be greatly appreciated, too

wtwtp is a "tig"?
Also, why are you so racist, OP?
Nothing wrong with having an obsession about a certain physical appearance.
Plus, in my country, a good Christian woman is hard to find.

You're an a-hole. Do you do the same great job pretending to be a drill sergeant with yourself? I'll bet not.

>pretty hard easy when they (((HE))) are is working against for us.
*fixed
Remember, if Christ is for us, who can possibly stand against us?

Am I doing myself a favor if I ignore women who I do not find attractive? There's this one girl, very innocent, pure and has an adorable personality. Christian aswell, of course. I also know she is attracted to me. Though my issue is that I just can't find her physically attractive. What do brehs?

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And you are a pansy. Did Hitler let (((da joos))) stop him from trying to do the right thing?

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>pretty hard easy when they (((HE))) are is working against for us
>(((HE)))

tigger! What are you implying?

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Same, raised by a single mother that never let me do anything myself, turning me into a worthless loser that is unable to do anything for himself.
Being constantly taken care of can really destroy your personality, and fill you with self-hatred.

I do think my life has been improving step by step, the most importent aspect is to stop blaming other people for failures in your life.
Second, it's also very important to realize that your not everything revolves around you, feeling "lonely and awkward" does not matter. All that matters is that you improve your life, and your personality (always be nice to other people!)

"I just feel lonely and awkward. I can't go anywhere and be happy. I can't enjoy myself around people. I can't enjoy myself alone. My future as it is looks like it's just going to be infront of a computer for the rest of my life with no winnie the pooh joy. Holy shit. I've lost hope for happiness and actually finding a relationship. I've lost hope for finding someone I could just talk to about what I'm thinking."
Same, while you could hire someone to listen to you, I would recommend talking to God.
The problem that I was having was that I stopped caring about God, and my prayers just felt like a stupid joke.

You have to change your mindset, it's something only you can do, if you're unable to do it God will not be able to reach you.
Also;
Stop browing; Zig Forums(stop caring about politics in general), any porn site, 4chan, any 8ch besides Zig Forums, youtube, any social that is not 1 on 1 contact.

"My future as it is looks like it's just going to be infront of a computer for the rest of my life"
Give your life to God, and he will fill you with joys you never ever experiences before.

Bud, in the end, all your problem are in your head. NOONE here can change you, only God can, if you let him.

Thanks for the advice. Was feeling pretty down last night. You guys gave me a few things to think about.

Hey Bro. Yeah, assuming you're the guy you're supposed to pay for whatever, but if shes a strong, independent woman type she might insist upon paying. Beyond that, open doors and mirror whatever she says. For example:

"Oh user, I got a new car and I really like it because it has a digital dashboard"

Say "Yeah, thats the kind without the regular kind of gauges, right?"

This keeps her going, keeps her talking. Women love to talk and you'll learn a lot about her this way. Definitely speak yourself of course, but this is a great way to keep things going, which is especially helpful in the inevitable awkwardness of a first date, which you'll have to power through.

Good luck user, I'll pray for you!

P/S the number one trick here is to mirror her dominant father figure in some ways. Hopefully, her dad treats her well, so she'll respond positively to you holding doors open for her, etc, etc. But most women seek out someone who subconsciously reminds them of their dominant father figure, which is also why women from broken homes seek out broken, usually abusive men. This system works for good, or evil. Hopefully you find this to be a good situation, tho.

thanks user
mongrel here, am happy as is but still want to serve God, should I remain celibate and just spread the good word? I don't think I'm called for the married life and I'm not really able to be personal with many people outside of my family.

Pay, make eye contact, smile, let her talk. Unless she reveals herself to be a pagan whore, you're gonna make it brah.

You're funny.

Don't do it. I answered this a few threads ago, but the more different you find your mate to be from you, the more likely you are to hate that trait with time. If she's honestly uglier than you and its not just a weight thing, then you may just be subconsciously suffering from low self esteem to think that its the best you can do. The linked article in the OP talks about that.

You're a good sport for taking it on the chin, you're on your way.

If you are mixed race and are having a complex about it, never forget that you have an identity in Christ that supercedes it. Like I told the other guy, take up the culture of your motherland and at least give women a chance to find you attractive for your faith before you Paul yourself.

I'll pray for you all.

Should've specified I was the same guy, my bad.
Not to be a whiny pessimist but there aren't many East Asian Christians, but I'll definitely try. I am skinnyfat but have a fair amount of muscle on my arm so I have a semblance of a chance. I do try to be positive but I'm worried that my lack of hobbies is going to make me boring. Also as evident here I really struggle with piecing my thoughts in a coherent manner and it always takes me about 10 seconds to come up with an organic response to anything, do you know anyways I can "prepare" what I say without coming off as a cold autistic automation?
Thank you for the prayers and advice user.

I don't have yellow fever, but Asian women give me a lot, and I mean a lot, more attention than white girls. I'm not ugly, I'm educated, I have a solid job, it's just that white girls seem to respond to thuggish behavior from men. Honestly, the whole 'be a jerk thing' is very true for white women. My problem is I can't respect women who need to be manipulated and 'controlled' to be happy. It's like having a kid, not a partner.
In 3 years when I turn 30, if I don't at least have a fiancee, I'm working on moving to Japan. It's the only way I see of finding happiness.

You're confusing evolutionary psychology cause and effect with genuine attraction. You like the cheap ego boost asians give you rather than earning the respect of women who share your cultural and genetic legacy. You're willing to doom your future generations just to give into easy modo self hatred via not self actualizing due to low self esteem. No amount of mental gymnastics on your part will change this. Just look at how it effects guys like , who have to deal with complexes arising from such lazy parental decision making, of which he didn't ask for.

I told you what earns the respect of women here. Stereotypical macho shit. I simply don't act that way. And before you call me a beta, my work is controlling 100 people every day. I simply don't want to play the petty mind games. In my mind, relationships are simple - you like similar things, you joke around, you like being around eachother. But no, that's not enough and that's not how it works. Because apparently, the better you treat women, the less they like you. I'm sick of that mindset and I'm not participating in that charade.

OP is cool otherwise but literally this. Stop feeling up your woman who may or may not be your bride OP

Yeah this guy's got a point. The mind game shit is insane. You can find white girls who aren't horrible though, but I completely understand your frustration and appreciation of Asian women.

The white girl I was talking to (who actually turned out to have good soil and confessed things to a priest) is no longer interested, so it looks like this Asian is an option. There's still white girls at some local churches, one of which is a Roman Catholic Eastern rite, so pray for me bros and I'll do likewise.

This user again:

Just came back from my first date ever, it went alright I think. We talked for one and a half hours, there were some awkward silences here and there, but overall it was smooth and fun. We decided to meet again, she gave her number and went for a hug. Thanks for the prayers.

Alphas don't make excuses. If you're too much of a coward to understand women in any measure, and you only seem to gravitate towards ones with daddy issues, you're the problem. Talk about relationships or leave.

You are a feather in my cap, my friend. May God continue to bless you in your endeavors.

We're not exactly at the position to demand much.
I struggle to find a virgin young woman interested in marriage and being a housewife, and I think many here also do.
I know it sucks to lower your beauty standards but that's what I think you should do.
If you're swimming in virgin women, of course that doesn't apply.

If looking at women is adultery how am I supposed to "flirt" with a girl?

If you know what I mean

Flirting and courting are two different things.

Can you explain the difference? For I am not a native English speaker.

Oh I understand women and the fact I understand them makes me just stop bothering with them. You sound like a cheap pua shit slinger btw.
If I'm more valuable at a certain place, why shouldn't I go to that place? What have I got to prove? Should I go there and just be myself and be happy, or stay and train myself into some macho frenzy? Because you can't scorn me, I'm productive, independent, I don't need anyone to 'set me straight'. And those are probably the reasons I bore most women here, it's just not exciting enough for them.

Courting = asking her father's permission to take her out on a date and eventually marry

Flirting = talking to the woman and trying to seduce her without the parent's permission.

Thank you. Isn't it kinda weird, talking to the father of a girl you don't know well? Shouldn't you get to know her first?

bookofpook.neocities.org

Godly Marriage and Virginity: Paths to Holiness

Not directed towards anyone specifically but please don't think all your happiness is dependent on having a potential partner. One person cannot magically cure your sadness and if you rely on your partner for your happiness 24/7 you will be a drain on them and when they leave you it will be devastating. Find some hobbies or anything you enjoy doing in your free time.

Hitler dubs check'd and heil'd
I personally don't have any complexes but many other mixed-race folk do. My Dad was and still is a white Christian conservative who knew and taught me how to work with household hardware so he's no soyboy but he didn't seem too prepared for me considering he conceived me in his mid-40s (probably why I'm a sperg). I don't resent him because I know he cared.
Never was attacked by an ebul nazi, worst thing was actually those shitty cultural heritage days they pushed in school where they went around and asked about your background because it's the first time you realize that you don't belong with the pure race kids and they all eye you like your an abomination when you pass by. Thankfully I had a firm Christian identity by the time so I didn't feel too lost but in liberal atheist houses where nothing is firm, objective, or sacred mongrels have no chance at life because they don't even have their race to hold on to and end up as hollow husks with no sense of identity.

How do I stop the blackpill slippery slope?
I have been quite blackpilled for weeks now even though I killed most of my inner demons, improved myself, been doing everything I can to find the woman - secondary to improving myself. I no longer fear relapsing as far as fap/porn is concerned. I know God has a path for me but praying has become more and more difficult and frankly I can feel this slowly eats my willpower from the inside. I know devil puts those doubts in my mind. It feels like they're everywhere around without having actually entered…yet.
what do?

>>Zig Forums
This is Zig Forums You have to go baaaaaaaaaaaaaaack!

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I'll pray for you

How does one avoid the "It was everywhere but the vagina so I'm a virgin and it wasn't sin"/born again virgin women
Is there certain characteristics they have that a woman who hasn't engaged in sexual promiscuity doesn't have?

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Whoops messed that one up
I mean do the "Sunday only Christian" women have certain characteristics that an actual pure one doesn't?

Sorry if I misinterpreted your previous postings friend.

By realizing the truth doesn't invalidate the search. The bible speaks at length about the follies of women, but don't be scared to widen the net.

Virgin women are as awkward as virgin men are depicted to be. They have an adorably "moé" quality about them that makes them entirely pleasant to be around. A nominal Christian woman is just another run of the mill degenerate normalfag heathen who happens to wear a cross. Repented non virgin women will wait until marriage just like a virgin one. But if you yourself aren't blameless, you shouldn't focus on their sin, focus on repenting for yours.

Girl I was dating revealed this to me.

Got rid of her pretty fast. The only reason we didnt have sex is because I refused. I have no doubt she would have if I offered

By not dating a fool.

If you're talking Catholic, just see if they accept the Church teaching on everything they're supposed to.

what this brother said.

What should I do if I don't think a girl is being receptive, but I don't want to hit her with the full weight of my autism?
I went on what seemingly was a date with a girl I like from my church like two weeks ago. I say seemingly as I just invited her to coffee without using that word and the most explicit date like thing was that I paid for her which she acted a little surprised by, but I can't tell if she actually was. It went pretty good without awkward pauses or weird feelings or anything, but at the end I brought up another time we could do something and she said she would need to check on that, and when I checked back with her she couldn't. I texted her two other times to see if we could do something, but the first time she said she was babysitting, which from what I know seems pretty legit, and the other time she was out of town, which lined up with her not being at church. I've then seen her at church but there was nothing more than a passing smile.
I really don't like this pursuing someone thing and I can't tell if I'm supposed to push farther than I have without seeing anything coming my direction or not. We've texted a little, even though I hate texting generally, so I know she has my number and could text me, and she can come up to me after church any time, but this has seemingly been an I initiate it or it doesn't happen thing.
When my friends were at Church she would come up and talk with us in a way that seemingly was showing me attention, always next to me or directly across from me, laughing and touching me when she was next to me, having me hold things for her when she needed to get something from her bag, etc. But now that my friends are leaving with school ending I'm mostly standing around like a loner waiting to help take things down when coffee hour is over.
I can do social things when the ball is rolling, so things felt pretty good around Pascha when we saw more of each other, but when I only see people weekly or more infrequently its really hard to start up conversation, so I can't start talking to her easily and asking her to go somewhere with me feels impossible.
Basically ever week I see her once and I think up to it, decide to ask her out, and then watch her walk away, with the once exception mentioned above. Then I just ruminate on it all, hate myself, and fall back into the cycle and think of next week
Being myself isn't working, I take showers, I already know the best language God ever created and I'm not learning an instrument. I want to find some resources or something with substance to help me, but all I ever seem to get is liberal shit advice or edgy pseudo-trad nonsense.
I almost feel like giving up but I really want a family and I don't really feel called to monasticism at all.
tfw no gf

Good job but she's right. Oral isn't actual sex cause its not procreative.

Nah, any penetration is sex.

How long has it been since you last offered to hang out? Tbh I'd say she's not interested, but if it's been a while you could ask one more time. Generally I find if a girl is interested and can't come to something I offer, she'll say "I'm realy sorry I can't, but when I'm free we can". Even if she's one that likes to be pursued, she will make sure you know she's interested.

I'm trying to plot this all out in my head and I think I might have gone out with her three weeks ago and texted her once each of the first two weeks after that, not texting her last week. In response to the first text she said she would want to hang out, but couldn't because she was babysitting her sisters baby, which is either is keeping her pretty busy or can be used as an excuse for being busy whenever she wants. Church just passed so I won't see her again for a week probably and if I did text her I'm not really sure what to go for. I really want something solid, even if its a solid rejection, but it seems like I might not get that without pushing pretty hard, but she also could be wanting a harder push. I know I should just ask her to do something when I see her at church, but I feel completely uncomfortable talking about stuff like this at church

Race worshipping stormtiggers please go. The Bible says not to marry an unveliever, nothing about race.

Asian Christian women are the highest tier women for a relationship.

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Jesus Christ, Lord of lords, please save us from this feminist faggotry. Amen.

Just buy an asian already and leave the thread alone

Go pay a based white roastie whale child support to give you muh pure aryan children that you will never have any influence over.

I like women of my own race and you know you're sick even if you wont admit it

For not worshiping divorce-fetish whores just because they're white?

Literally where are you getting this from, I have no interest in a woman that has been or would get divorced

Every white knighting cuck in this thread is the same. Do not trust them.

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They are all of the same mind. Feminist cucks for women, especially white women. You are not weak because you "can't handle a real huwite womyn". They are cucks because they defend them.

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You are a feminist faggot just like the one I replied to. You shame Christian men for finding Christian women because they won't marry up roasties.

Now that's the most jewish post ITT.
Well done Moishe!

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I'm feeling kinda bad for what I just posted and I wanted to apologize at least in part. I shouldn't have said things the way I did, but this obsession on race is weird and we shouldn't arbitrarily decide to abandon our white sisters because what other woman are doing. Can we please not turn this into another anti white Christian woman thread?

If I'm a feminist I have no idea what that word means anymore. Woman should be submissive to their husbands, virgins till marriage, and have no teaching authority in the church

Asian women are the best for a relationship, yes. Latinas and Asian women are both far superior to a white woman for a wife because they still carry out their wifely obligations such as tending to the home and not denying sex to their husband. And generally they just have much better personalities.

Saying a Christian man is weak or sick or damaged because he doesn't cuck for white roasties is feminist to the core.

Who is saying white roasties? Everyone I have seen post in these threads about wanting a white wife wanted a white virgin wife. Maybe it's just cause I live in a college town, but it's very easy for me to see how far degeneracy has spread into the asian population. Parents back home are spending bank for their little girls to come over here and be treated like cum dumpsters, but I'm supposed to not believe this is happening because of internet polls or something?

Don't call others "race worshippers" when you are yourself one lol
Pity

Reality is not race worship. You ignore realty to promote roasties because they're white.

Have you ever actually met a white girl out of high school that was virgin?

Dude nearly everyone I meet isn't a virgin, white, black, asian, mexican, they've nearly all had sex and you're being weird

Also inb4 you accuse me of saying being a virgin is weird, obviously not what I'm saying and any honest reader would know that

The point is that you can find many women, especially Christian, that are still virgin in Asian. Many years after high school.

There are still pure women in America and other first world countries. Please stop saying dumb things about them and pushing this mass expatriation/immigration meme

Have you considered seeing a Christian therapist? Are you following the advice and getting /fit/? What are you doing to improve your station outside of feeling self-pity?

Brother, I feel for you. I dont think in your case I can offer any other advice than this: ask her out and confess your feelings, she will either reciprocate or deny. Either way it will help you move forward with your life.
I took this advice myself a couple months ago; it didn't work out however it helped me move forward with my life.

I really want to, and while I would rather she like me also I feel like being turned down would be an improvement from where I'm at, at least I could know she wasn't just waiting for me to ask. I don't feel comfortable saying this stuff at church, so somehow or another I need to get her somewhere else. Coffee seems the easiest but I would much rather go on a walk somewhere in nature or something

So, just from my own life experience, I advise you do confront your feelings with her. Of course, pray about it first, and ask God to strengthen your resolve. You need to know, by not knowing you are spinning your wheels in an unhealthy manner, making you more neurotic, worried, and obsessed.
I suggest you follow through and do something like a walk outside, in a public area like a park or a city square. Speak plainly and let yourself be known to her. Should it not work out, you will feel an immediate sadness and grief, however it will pass and you will expand yourself to new horizons. On the other hand, it may work out in to a joyous Godly union. I pray for you brother.

Thanks

Unmarried Christians engaging in any activity that activates their carnal desires are engaging in mortal sin.
One of the critical techniques people apply today to build a good bond is something called "kino". On the early dates, you have to continuously touch the woman. Get her used to your touch and reminded of what kind of time you are and will be spending together.
How do Christians date one another in this day and age when even kino is forbidden?

So I went on 3 not-dates once with this girl I used to know, realized I wasn't clear, and texted her after one saying "How about we go on real date next time" and she said "I'd actually really like that." There was little-to-no indication she was interested (the girl I just went on a date with yesterday had little-to-no indication as well). You have to try to get in a confident mindset to where you're not worried about what you'll say or what the outcome will be- don't be married to the outcome. Then you won't worry so much about how what you say is taken because you're open to either having it go your way or not, thus you'll be more bold in your word choice and interactions. Text her and say just what I said- "Hey ___, how about we go on a real date" or some such. Maybe do this even in-person after a sort of "high note" interaction, in which you're both enjoying each other's company laughing or something. Or you can text her later on a Sunday when you guys interact a little. If it is a positive, good interaction, when you text her later, she'll think back to the warm time you had, and might be totally down.

You both are autistic, brother. Why not both? If a guy finds an Asian Christian and they're happy and it actually works, let it be. That said, the guys who do like that shouldn't worship it and shove it down everyone's throat. There's pros and cons to both Asians and whites (and bless them, Latinas like says). That guy also doesn't see what pure white women are left, and there are. There's just a higher chance the azn is pure, but to taste. Finding ANY pure woman is a God-send so count your blessings, fellas.

not even a bait at this point, shlomo

go ahead if you wish. Your ancestors either roll in their graves or they view this with disdain.

Yeah. sure thing.

Our ancestors married people of other races and peoples too.

So let me paint you a picture. I've been talking to this Japanese girl who knows so little English that she uses google translate to talk to me. The local girls can't be bothered to give me any more than dry one line replies, until they stop responding altogether. Why should I, in any sort of universe, reject girls who go out of their way to talk to me in favor of someone who won't give me the time of the day?
In my country, you have to be the stereotypical Chad to attract women, you literally have to act like a neanderthal.

I'm pregnant! If it's a boy we're naming him Joseph after Jesus' earthly dad and Zoe if it's a girl (means life in Greek, was a popular name with early Christians.)

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tfw when I was 12ish over seven years ago I let another male my age suck my penis. Obviously I was an amoral retard. I can't live this down and I hate it. God, why did I do that? At least I stopped before I finished because I felt it was wrong. I feel like a degenerate all the time because of this. winnie the pooh, I feel like a hypocrite for only wanting a virgin wife but the statistics are way worse for non-virgin women vs men.
JUST winnie the pooh MY SHIT UP

Name your son "Methuselah", so his friends will call him "meth".

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We accept your confession, brother. Repent and let the Lord give you the peace your heart needs to find someone good for you. Just don't bring it up to your potential mate unless she asks.

May the Lord bless and grant you both many more! Both are good name choices.

I joked with my fiancee that we should name one Melchizedek and name him Mel for short. She actually liked the idea, but I secretly would want to do so to remember Mel Gibson.