I've seen that before and generally agree with it. I don't expect my future wife to be my equal. I have never, and would never lean on a woman for emotional support. The proper role of a husband as far as emotions go is to be a rock for the wife's emotions - she can lean on me, our children (when they're very young) can lean on her (and when they're older I'll teach my sons stoicism).
>which degeneracy or red flags are prevailing.
The chain of events starts when a homeless black guy approached us and I told him I didn't have any cash (I didn't). She started digging through her purse even though he's already walking away. I tell her "that's okay, just let it go" but she calls him back over. So I'm now having to watch the dude like a hawk because I'm expecting him to grab the whole purse.
I would label that a red flag because she should have just followed my lead. But, it's not a deal-breaker on a second date. I let it go and resumed our conversation which had nothing to do with social issues. At some point later, the conversation does go to social issues and she actually brings up the homeless guy and makes a comment about how I "wouldn't" help him. Rather than get defensive (because I really didn't have any cash) I make a joke, which she ignores, and the next words out of her mouth are about white privilege.
I pretty much bailed out right then. It was 10:30 and we both had to work the next day so the date was over anyway. I'm not sure if she picked up on how I nexted her at that remark. I texted her that night saying I had a nice time. She texts me back the next day at noon! I might be reading too much into that, but my suspicion is that when I didn't take her home and fuck her, she went to some other guy's house.
We had one more text conversation, and as of this morning it's been 5 days of no contact so it's safe to say we both get the message that it's not going to work.
You asked what red flags "prevail" - you have to keep in mind, I'm filtering girls out long before we get to the dating phase. Most of them, I just get a sense that they're too wild. It's weird how loud and obnoxious most women are. They're not even trying to be feminine - they're sexy sure, just not feminine. And they have so much confidence. It's just astounding to me. Their self esteem is through the roof. I suppose that's a result of the constant validation they get from social media.
Note that I'm not looking for a girl with low self esteem - just one with appropriate levels of it. A bit of humility is actually quite attractive.
Usually what I do in a group of people is make note of which girl is talking the least and go for her. I've had a lot better experiences than the dudes I hang out with. I've never gotten involved with anyone legitimately crazy. The most common reason I have to next them is that they're liberal/leftist/hate trump types. Second most common reason is that they're too serious about their career. I have never in my life had a girl tell me that she wants to start a family - like, that's one of her goals.