This kinda worries me, but I think it will come up pretty quickly if we did get together. I'm not sure how much to talk about stuff like this without asking her out, but the thing is that with her being her I'm really just not worried that I would ask her out and then find out her views of dating are anything but acceptable.
This I think would come in time, but I'm not sure how capable I am of doing this. As I mentioned above I am terrible socially and can really screw up even easier conversations. One thing I really would be excited about with her would be to have someone I could confide in a little more and talk to more comfortable if that did happen, but talking dating ethics with her family could be a little out there for me, at least at first, but I also kinda figure if anyone was really worried I would be approached, and I can always respond to that even if I don't expect it.
Work is tough to ditch right now, but she was really understanding in her texts so I'm not too worried, and if she did come around again I would definitely feel much more prepared towards asking her out.
I'm not planning on bringing that up real quick or anything, but it also is I think not as bad as it might sound as at least two years of that there are pretty understandable reasons for me not to have done anything
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I'm eager to hear of your success, user. I too find it difficult to speak to others at times, but practice makes perfect. Make a point to engage people in conversation when the stakes are lower, even just talk to yourself in the mirror.
Thanks man, I'll come back with whatever happens
Giving some followup:
All in all it was a pretty neat experience I even committed to grave sin of handholding. We have another 'date' planned next week, gonna check out this museum that piqued her interest.
What anime is that silly webm even from?
Problem Children are Coming Aren't They?
kek, because there shouldn't be flutes at Mass? i feel the flute actually fits in with how Mass should "sound"…unlike any kind of guitar or most instruments that aren't piano/organ/choir
No, not texting. Messages through CatholicMatch, kind of like emails. She hasn't responded so I'm going for one of the other girls. Thanks for the feedback all the same.
Don't give up yet man.
Dude, get on this. Just go balls out and be casual- say something like "Hey how about we get a coffee sometime?" and if/when she says yes, say you'll text or call her for the details (if you talk to her at work.).
So I finally got her number just last week. I'm really hoping I can get a coffee date with her relatively soon. In seven years of trying to find a girl who's wife material, I've only even been on one date, which came to nothing. I feel cheated out of much of my 20s.
This girl is really cute, part of CRU, and I just want her to be pious too.