Self-mutilation is sin. Just buy dickcage. Or use wire.
/Christ/ian Relationships General #4
Not sure if abandoning his mother would be a good example for him.
No chances of marrying the woman, converting her? That would be the best example - a complete family, father strong in faith…
Please don't
I was thinking to kill myself, that way I would not offend God anymore. Then I realized suicide is a bad thing.
Your argument wouldn't convince anyone,im sorry to say.
Im afraid of it getting infected of having pee pee problems so I havent done it.
Maybe I should just ignoring thots
wtf
Before I started entertaining again the idea of going out with this girl I had a plan for leaving my state and going on a long road trip from church to church, Sunday to Sunday, trying to find a place to eventually move to. This idea never went away but I started thinking about it less and less, but now I'm thinking about it more and getting hype again.
I think this is something I've started to notice on my own, as I kinda mentioned above about my old friends. I'm starting to be a little more involved with people from work, invited to parties and stuff, and it's a lot more helpful towards my self confidence then only hanging around people from Church, where tfw no gf has set in pretty thoroughly.The age thing I'm more worried about. By the time I leave on my trip I could be 22 or 23, maybe older, and depending when I leave and how long I go for I could come back anywhere from 23 to 25 or so. If I don't date before that then I could be in my late twenties by the time I'm actually in a new location getting things together well, and that's assuming I find a nice place that works out and don't have to move again. It could get rough
Everyone blames 'high drive' 'high testosterone'.
What you should do is to man up and face it. Harming your body is not a solution. Furthermore your 'high sex drive' is mainly in your brain so you should face it there.
My problem is not an absolute lack of qts in church. There are many of them tbh. My problem is that I have not met the right one yet.
I do not think I have standards too high. I just really need to see how a girl could be a mother of our children. I also need to be physically attracted to her so we can make those children, as well as be connected in soul with her.
I do trust God. I pray for meeting that one but it just still does not happen.
What do you think….are the 'gut feelings' good enough to estimate this or should I follow the brain more in this?
You don't have to marry them. Date plenty so you can see how women behave and how to act on a relationship