What kind of Christians are you guys ?, Give it god !
I'm mostly a porn adict and I'm stuggling to do nofap
Nathaniel Fisher
Luke Williams
I will provide, though how do I put up with her if she wants to do something that’s a bit much?
Kayden Phillips
Either:
a) Be a man and lay down the law: that you will do no such thing, period.
or
b)If you are picking up early signs before marriage, that she has such proclivities, do not marry her. Such things are usually a sign of even worse things under the surface.
Jordan Jenkins
I pray it doesn’t come to either of these two, but I will if I have to.
Ethan Clark
Your heart is hardened; it's why my words hits it like a hammer and makes you internally panic. So many inane accusations…I'll just disregard them.
Depriving someone of something very often implies the involving of unwillingness. As I've explained, affection should not be reduced to mere vulgar sexual activity. Not "boning your wife as often as possible" does not mean that you should be a distant cold weirdo.
Descriptive poetic passages are not demands to satisfy.
It is not the main point.
A spousal "need" could be emotional support, not your wife begrudgingly opening her legs for you.
Have you not read anything I've written?
Yes, because fornication is mortally sinful while "boning your wife as often as possible" is venial.
No, it is designed for a male and a female to become one flesh and build a family.
If you marry your wife because you "look forward to have non-sinful sex with her", you are indeed a lusty brainlet, slave to his lust. I sure hope my daughter won't end up with an entitled sex-hungry impostor such as yourself.
Please answer my last question:
Kayden Wilson
I never denied this; you completely misunderstood what I've written thus your entire reply is a failure.
Angel Cooper
Do not deprive one another
come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
The verses that this is in the context of is painfully obviously about sexual relations. You are deliberately twisting the Word of God to the point where I now think you are a troll arguing in bad faith. Your uncharitable insults and use of filthy ungodly language (i.e. your graphic descriptions of sexual acts) further reinforce this perception.
Everything else is you similarly dodging and twisting Biblical verses and putting forth your own heretical interpretations.
I already did.
Angel Baker
Self-control is seen favourably and that's my point; "boning your wife as often as possible" is a venial sin, that's my other point.
You're the one who made baseless inane accusations against my character, "Mr. Charitable".
I enjoy being blunt about vulgar things when I criticise them; same goes for sodomites: I find it amusing to describe them as "two men shoving each other's cocks up their sh*tholes"; it may be ungodly to speak this way but when the subject matter is vulgar and ungodly itself, I'd rather not tame my speech as much as the one trying to polish a turd would like me to. It sounds bad? Because it is bad!
They are in line with Sacred Scripture and I could bombard you with quotes from Church Fathers.
Also: I never said that engaging in non-procreative marital sex is mortally sinful and should be prohibited. Read:
Don't put words in my mouth.
Ian Miller
I’m confused. What do I do, love my wife in bed or by other means?
Jaxson Powell
Love her, eventually responsibly procreate with her, aspire to both willfully remain chaste and preferably detach lust completely from love. If she really wants to get more physically intimate: let her but don't be insisting yourself as she, being a female, is weaker than you, a male, and could end up feeling "used".