I’m going to get to the point: as someone who identifies as Orthodox, I find the Holy Family depictions found in Catholicism to be problematic to say the least.
First of all, to say There is even a family present is somewhat inaccurate. Joseph is not the father of Jesus, but his guardian. Yes, Mary and Joseph were married, but only in the sense that they were legally listed as such. In terms of consummation, Mary is a perpetual Virgin, betrothed in truth only to God. Thus, no matter how much Joseph loves Jesus and his Mother, he was and is only a simple Saint, worthy for supplication, but not to be placed with the Queen of Heaven and God Almighty himself.
Secondly, and less controversially, depictions of Christ, Mary and Joseph that riff off Rublev’s Three Angels such as pics related are near blasphemy. Not only does it elevate mere mortals such as Mary who by God’s grace alone was kept from voluntary sin, and Joseph who was only about as holy as the rest of the Saints, to the status of God, it brings Christ down to being a simple mortal because of this context. Yes, I admit my ignorance in stating that I do not know if Rublev meant to say the angels that met with Abraham WERE the trinity, or if it is a mere symbol, but no matter what, to say that The Trinity is like a family, something the Baptist Jack Hyles even said, is missing the point of what the trinity is, that being God’s ineffable nature and plan of creation and salvation.
Not to say the three cannot be depicted together, but it should be done in a way so as to establish their proper roles, being God, the Bearer of God and the Protector of God.
If you reached this far, I would be more then happy to see any rebuttals to this. I am still learning, and perhaps you can show me something I have never thought of before.
God bless you and thank you.