Nofap issues

Almost 4 weeks into it now and my foreskin has a new layer of pre-cum on it every few hours, think of sex three times as often (although in a more natural way), feel like I'm on steroids (big GAINS and anger), feel more awake and mentally focused, and connected to God. My issue with it is that it doesn't seem sustainable and I have little hope finding a wife let alone waiting at least a year to get married to her so how should I best relieve it? I am a 21 year old kissless virgen not due to looks but from being a white minority in my neighborhood in Canada, Christian for my whole life, studying a stem field, only wanting to date people who are germanic (for ethnic and by extension cultural and behavioral similarities), and from being introverted. I am in no way awkward, I have many male friends that are like me, and I am in shape. I've went on dates with girls and get attention from them, but they are either to shy to be able to function, litteral coal burning communists, or NPC whores. I am not picky on looks, but require someone who will not use their disproportionate legal power to oppress me or my children with modern (((values))). I pray to God to either relieve me of my sexual burden or perform a miracle in having me find a women that is at least salvageable. Perhaps God will be kind to me and end my Babylonian captivity, but I will still be obedient and loyal: Christ is enough. Tips, prayers, and shared feels all welcome. Kyrie Eleison.

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Well first of all I'd suggest work on not thinking about sex as much, thats probably whats causing your first issue. Yes it may be in a more natural way but thats just going to get you aroused, and from there you'll just start lusting.

Personally user I think you should start to work on self-mastery. Not trying to sound patronizing either. I believe you need to work on being able to overcome lust, the constant thoughts about lust, and the whole 'let alone waiting a year to get married to her'. I imagine once you overcome these feelings you're more likely to have the Lord bless you with meeting your future spouse.

Would any of you be against taking supplements to reduce lustful inclinations?

Every virgin wants to think of themselves as volcel, but the vast majority (by far) are incels. Claiming volcel is a coping mechanism. If you've had very limited or no interaction with girls besides asking for class supplies, it's because of your looks.

Thanks user. I started nofap for that very reason as to give up my excuses and prepare myself for being in a decent relationship in the future where I will hopefully be a virgen till the wedding. I'm getting good at repressing the thoughts when they come up, but if I'm not busy they pop back up quickly. I suppose I convinced myself it was natural, because most people are far worse off, but comparing yourself to others as proof of obedience is wrong. The flesh is weak and quick to sin. My balls won't blow up though right?


It would disrupt my natural hormone generation and I don't trust pharma companies at all.


Please trust me. I do have weird interests like only listening to English and German folk music, sabaton, and classical; but looks are not at all the reason.

I would honestly say it's the other way around. Not that I have any proof or anything I just don't think that the majority of celibate people are "cursed" to be that way involuntarily

Female hypergamy is not forgiving, I'll say that much. Any decent women become more rare by the day.

Women fawn over convicted felons who look good, trust me when I say your interests are the last thing most of them care about.

Stop being so disgusting and you'll find an easier time of it.

OP here and this 100 percent. My field is also something a women will recoil the most at (knowing some of my colleagues it is somewhat justified). I really need to move out of Canada too.

Feels harsh, but a good lashing is deserved and will help. Thanks user.

Then why not take a herb supplement called chasteberry extract? It was said that monks use it to reduce libido and it doesn't interact with testosterone.

I'll look into it for curiosity's sake.

kek

Why is that image even a thing? All it does it tempt the weaker of us. Stop.

I picked it from looking through my meme folder looking for something that embodies my suffering and it is a good match. I'll be more mindful in the future, but just walking on campus is far worse than the picture for me brother.

It seems it works by increasing dopamine sort of like an opioid and it lowers test in larger doses so I'm good.

Reported for posting pornographic imagery.

Surprised it took this long tbqhwusagradafamília

And also it get's spoilered rather than deleted which is..weird?

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OP IS STUPID

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by the style, I’d say it’s Milo Manara’s work

Didn't know the culture is that different and that some people don't go outside here. For all the people complaining without referencing my post addressing this already did you seriously look in the catalogue stare at the picture for an hour and without reading anything here then blame me for it? Or never go on any other board?

I'm a very good looking volcel.
That being said I arrived at this state of being because I experienced the depravity of sexual liberty. It is pure evil emptyness.Had lots of sex with lots of different people, and the experience always led me to be either unsatisfied or emotionally hurt (mostly both tbh).

Avoid fornication.Only love makes sex worth having. If you can't control yourself, learn self mastery and make a plan reducing your masturbation to daily one, than move on to weekly one and finally, monthly one. After that your goal should be to stop entirely. Have patience with yourself, but do master your own will before your will masters you.

Self mastery will help you understand yourself better and you will be able to distinguish between lust and love, which is a key requirement for building a good marriage.

Good luck, lads, and remember that watching porn is becoming complicit with the jew in his crime.

Cold turkey worked better for me. God help us.

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Believe it or not, the secret is to just masturbate without thinking of anything sexual. Just treat it like you rubbing your back, but don’t under any cercumstantces use porn, and if something sexual crossed your mind, stop and do something else. If you do orgasm afterwards, just clean up and go on with your day. Remember, Jesus said the main sin of masturbation is looking at the opposite sex as objects of lust, not as fellow Christians. When the time comes and you are sealed with a wife, THEN you may have sex.

Sorry if all of this was just “no duh”, but I really do hope that it works for you, because it sure as heck has worked for me.

cut that shit off

no, YOU'RE coping, because you refuse to recognize that any red blooded male including me, OP, and hopefully you, though you may be a little less red blooded still, can go on tinder, swipe about for half an hour, get a cab and have sex within hours. it is logistically and socially very easy to figure out how to get into a hoe's pussyhole it's up to us not to oblige.

OP here

I thought of it. I don't have any health issues with it, it would hurt badly, if I did have sex it I would want it, but perhaps God cares? Paul didn't think so.

This. I don't get how if I complain about loose sexual morality people just think it is the best thing ever and I must not be able to participate. I don't want to disobey God and trust him when he says it isn't worth it and with STD's and all these new degenerate types of sexualities it is an easy choice.

This is what I wanted to hear from this thread, but I don't know if it's what God wants. I've bested pornography except for looking at the stuff on /fit/ for any amount of time. That is what I mainly wanted to accomplish. I also think that I live in a place where I won't be able to have a family so I need to give up lust completely though. I can also easily switch back if the situation changes or I move or something so it gives me a lot of options.