Your post would fit well in self improvement general
You obviously need to limit the time online here, eliminate fapping and get to work irl on your self improvement.
Found your problem: Too much time online, leads to fapping. Get to work, eliminate fapping. Purity thread should be your primary goal, then moving to irl - talking to women, working out, reading books.
Three pillars will help you: Prayer, fasting and work. This will eliminate fapping. That will help you move on
I recommend going to relationship general, purity thread, books thread, nature of women thread, self improvement thread but otherwise limiting your exposure so you do more things offline. You are stuck and you prefer to waste your time than to face your stuck.