Can't stop fornicating with my girlfriend

I've been in a relationship for around 2 years now, and many times my Christian girlfriend and I have fornicated even though we both try to stop. The only times we have a big conflict are after we fornicate and she always gets crazy with guilt and regretful over sinning. I don't feel as bad about it as her, but I try to stop it anyways, but every now and then we cave in and end up sinning again and again, and it's gotten toxic. We feel too young to be married (19 and 20). I'm also doing nofap and having a hard time (no pun intended) dealing my libido, as well as my girlfriend's. The current cycle of fornication and regret we're in is putting my girlfriend through hell, so something needs to change. Should we break up and get back together when we're ready for marriage? Is there a way we can get married now but not by the government (we really love each other and could see ourselves getting married)?

Can anyone else relate?

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Please elaborate, as to why you feel you are "too young" to be married, if it's "muh career" remember such is a Jewish scheme to keep people from having families young and to keep them fuelling the economy.

You are not married. This is fornication, and fornicators will not be saved, but face eternal punishment.

If you love her, get married. Is impracticality in a modern society a bigger threat than eternal torment? You two can legally get married by the state, and therefore by the Church.

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It's the other way around though.

No, the Church will not marry you if you do not get married by the state first.

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If you're old enough to be sacramentally married, you're old enough to be civilly married. There's no weaselly thing you can do here. You need to really examine what this relationship means to you and get serious about your spiritual life. If you really love this girl and you feel that you are called to marriage, you should marry her as long as you are both serious about your faith. If you aren't both on board with chastity and marriage, then maybe there is an immaturity at work here and it would be better to be separated for a while for the sake of spiritual growth. If you guys are co-habitating it needs to stop, period.

You both should sit down for a visit with your priest to discuss this. This behavior will destroy your relationship before you even get a chance to marry if you don't put your foot down and commit to changing things, ideally with the help of your spiritual director. If you really love this girl, you need to love her enough to refrain from continuing in this state of spiritual destruction, for otherwise you betray your feelings to truly be lust or infatuation and not actual love. Get serious and pray about it.

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You sound like a pair of children who are not emotionally mature enough to be in a sexual relationship.

If you feel too young to be married then YOU'RE TOO YOUNG TO SHAG.
Bloody hell just marry already, or realize you're too much of a kid to even think about stuff like sex.
tiggas on here have it hard enough (pun obviously intended) with finding a gf in the first place and Sir Sex-a-Lot here has it all except the wee little amount of balls necessary to go to the altar.

Here are your options:
1) Repent, pray, dump her and move on.
2) Repent, pray, realize that marrying her would solve all your problems and that old enough for sex = old enough for marriage.
3) Repent, pray but still keep trying to be celibate in an already point-break relationship because you fell for the trap of (((premarital sex in a relationship))) AND be an official Bith-Ass-Nibba™ because you can't even make a single final decision in your life.

On the other hand, do remind I'm just a nerd without a gf in front of a computer with high-speed internet.

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Literally just get married. St. Paul put it best when he said that it's better to get married than it is to burn with passion. If you two are already having a hard time keeping your hands off of one another, you'll probably have a pretty stable marriage.

Dt. 22:28 “If a man comes upon a young woman who is not (engaged) , seizes her and lies with her, and they are discovered, the man who lay with her shall give the young woman’s father fifty silver shekels and she will be his wife, because he has violated her. He may not divorce her as long as he lives.”

You better wife her up user. It doesn’t have to be tomorrow, but you should planon doing it as soon ad you’re financially ready

Get married. People used to get married with 16 and 13 in the middle ages.

Get married. Dating was invented by homosexuals.

You have to repent; sex is not a venture of pleasure, it is the second step of being fruitful (the first being marriage). Seeking the pleasures of flesh can destroy your relationship, either you or your girlfriend will get tired of the sinful behavior and either move on, or worse, descend into a downward spiral of degeneracy. If you truly do love her, you must accept the fact you have to marry her and only perform sexual acts with the intent of having a child. Besides, if there is something I learned when I was younger, it's that a woman's physical beauty will always wither since that beauty is temporary, it's best not to dwell on it or go after women solely on their looks or sex appeal because time will take it's toll eventually. You have to have your kids young because that's the most fertile time in your livelihood, true love doesn't come from the acts of sex either, but the fact you put away the temporary thoughts and feelings of artificial love to be rewarded with true love.
Marriage is a powerful bond user, I hope you remember the words I told you tonight, and I'll be praying for you.

Proverbs 5:18
May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.

Hebrews 13:4
Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

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You mean after she's become the town bicycle?

As jerkish as this user may seem, he's has a point. Women tend to sleep around if their first sexual engagement isn't to solidify a life-long relationship.

Stop being effeminate and marry her. You're not too young, you should be married at 18 traditionally. Stop fornicating with her, you're just showing her you have no self control and you're too effeminate to protect her honour.

Stop being pathetic and take responsibility like a man.

The fact that OP hasn't come back suggests he only came here to complain, not to change.

Females could most certainly be mature enough to commence motherly roles at ages 18 or 19, assuming she was raised correctly. However, due to the slower and more advanced development of the male, I had read that men are generally mature for marriage beyond the age of 23 or 24, even later. I don't believe most men are mature enough to be married at the age of 18, and this is in a civilized, ordered Christian society. As for our modern world? WEW!

You read wrong. In ancient cultures it was the norm for men to marry at 18, have a profession, home and children.

Modern man has arrested development because he has wasted his adolescence not learning a profession, watching porn and playing vidya.

Is telling OP to man up and get married being realistic?

Yes. More men need to hear that in this day and age of porn and vidya.

Imagine being this worldly and retarded.
You ARE married, fag. Either make peace with this, or just keep sinning I guess.

by this logic fornication doesn't exist

keep it in mind that the first aim of sex is to create children that will adore God.

and you should seriously consider marrying her asap since she's also catholic and feels penitent. hard thing to find nowadays

It sure does! Two people who get “married” but are of the opinion they can divorce for some reason are FORNICATORS. People who go to parties and “hook-up” are FORNICATORS. Two people, man and woman, who agree to love each other for the rest of their lives and cleave unto one another, are married, even without legally, or Catholically doing so.

Marriage age is 16 for men and 14 for women. This is some basic catholic teaching or was at least.

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Update OP?