Ironically, you're probably the one that's obsessed with masturbation
Practial tips on how to resist the mortal sin of masturbation
Never ever allow yourself to even consider it as an option. Once you start a discussion with the devil, you are lost. Pray as soon as you feel a need to wank and/or go somewhere, where you're not able to do it.
Well, many people have a problem with it, since they come from atheist background and used to fap a lot. Without dealing with this it's impossible to grow, so it's quite an important topic. Although I agree that if you constantly talk and think about it, you're never going to be free
People will gladly whip themselves to fap.
The pleasure is.bigger tham the pain
OP you need to think of the Benefits of nofap.
More energy,better dreams,more T.
Do it for the benefits and self-improve yourself.
I managed to cut off voluntary porn use entirely but it's still in the back of my mind, haunting me, also, imageboards are full of porn so you stumble accross some even if you don't want to.
Masturbation however is another issue entirely. I can't go longer than 3 weeks without it.
I think I'm going to change my mindset from "I don't want to hurt God by sinning" to "I want to please God by having sex in its proper place". I have no doubts that I will keep failing in this area, but I need a positive way to channel this instead of simply surpressing it.
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To be honest this totally is true for me.
I was homophobic because I was secretly gay and I really wanted to hide it from the world to "fit in".
I imagine that the homophobic part of your mind was your latent conscience reminding you not to shame yourself.
I agree that being a sodomite is bad but its entirely plausible he did it just to fit in.
I have no idea. All I wanted was to distance myself from that "thing" so that I can't be associated to it.
But the only way to do it is to ignore it.
So yeah. Nowadays I just pray to God to send me someone with whom we can love each other be it a woman or a man, I just want his will to be done, and if his will is that I be alone, that's fine.
The male body has nocturnal emissions to handle this, problem is you've been conditioning yourself all these years to fap on a daily basis so your body will have some adjusting to do. Anyways, it is implied in the Bible that masturbation is wrong: The man from whom the seed of copulation goeth out, shall wash all his body with water: and he shall be unclean until the evening. (Leviticus 15:16 DRA)